Empathy

Concern: When you have become aware that you belong of consciousness, how do you get caring in whatever YOU are doing? Doesn’t it really feel superficial?

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Reality Powering Stalling And Motivation

Many individuals endure stalling. It maintains them from residing achieved existence and getting to their total likely. There are many hypotheses guiding why are persons waste time and the ways to stop, but several reach the nail for the mind and uncover the actual, which is: Come across Your Appreciation When you are enthusiastic, really…

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需要放鬆嗎? 有一個星期嗎? 您的壓力管理7天計劃。

佢哋說,有不止一種方法可以畀貓剝皮。 当你開始用所有嘅沮喪、悲傷、焦慮和壓力嚟撕掉你嘅頭髮時,你也是一樣。 係一種精神狀態,就好似將苦藥食到喉嚨度,導致你失去自我意識,惡化你嘅理智。 一想到它,就可以把任何人由邊緣趕走。 佢哋說,積極主動嘅人已經生活喺邊緣。 作為一個壓力大嘅人對另一個,我知道它的感覺,並相信我有好多變種,当涉及到壓力。 應付生活,孭住可能屬於或唔屬於你嘅問題,可以刮掉你一旦走出扇門就可以承載嘅小快樂同幸福。 你唔可以責怪佢哋咁; 佢哋有自己嘅理由,就好似我哋有我哋嘅理由令壓力壓垮我哋一樣。 佢哋話壓力喺心,嗯,你到底點了法? 有幾種方法可以管理壓力,並最終消除它由你嘅生活之一,呢啲天之一。 因此,我會盡量將佢分成一個為期七天的課程畀你,我保證它永遠唔會太重嘅身體,以及心靈。 1.承認壓力係好吖! 畀你嘅朋友壓力! 基於身體嘅自然”戰鬥或飛行”反應,能量嘅爆發將提高你嘅表現喺正確嘅時刻。 我仲未睇到一個頂級運動員喺大型比賽前完全放鬆。 明智地使用壓力,在最重要的時間時,更加努力地推動自己。 2.避免壓力打噴嚏! 壓力嘅人打噴嚏壓力細菌不分青紅皂白,喺你知之前,你都係被感染嘅! 透過識別他人嘅壓力並限制你與壓力嘅聯繫方式嚟保護自己。 或者,如果你有傾向,發揮壓力医师,並教佢哋點樣更好嘅咁打理自己。 3.向最好嘅人學習! 当周圍嘅人失去理智時,邊個保持冷靜? 佢哋有乜嘢不同嘅做法? 佢哋嘅態度係乜嘢? 佢哋使用乜嘢語言? 佢哋受過訓練,經驗豐富嗎? 從遠處弄明白,抑或坐低傾偈。 向最好嘅壓力經理學習,並複製他們的能力。 4.練習社會可接受的重呼吸! 係我由健身教練嗰度學到嘅:你可以用沉重呼吸嚟呃你嘅身體放鬆。 慢慢呼吸7計數,然後呼出計數11。 重複7-11呼吸,直到你的心率減慢,你出汗的手掌乾涸,事情開始感覺更正常。 5.畀壓力思想紅燈! 有可能將自己綁喺一個壓力結度。 “如果發生呢種情況,咁可能發生,然後我哋都上小溪! 呢啲事情大部分永遠唔會發生,咁做乜嘢要不必要咁浪費那些擔心嘅能量呢? 畀壓力思考訓練紅燈,並阻止佢哋喺佢哋嘅軌道。 好啦,所以它可能會出錯-係幾咁可能,你能做乜嘢嚟防止它? 6.瞭解您的觸發點和熱點! 演講,面試,會議,提供困難的反饋,緊迫的最後期限…… 我的心率正在上升,只係寫下呢啲! 列出自己嘅壓力觸發點或熱點。 具體啲。 只係向某個受眾進行演示,讓你振作起來呀? 一個項目是否比另一個項目造成更多嘅壓力? 你飲嘅咖啡多咗咩? 導致你壓力嘅係強大嘅信息,因為你可以採取行動,使其壓力減輕。 你需要學習一些新嘅技能啊? 你是否需要額外嘅資源? 是否需要切換到脫咖啡因? 7.在一端燒蠟燭! 睡眠不足,飲食不良,冇運動,對我哋嘅身體同心靈造成嚴重破壞。 有啲明顯,但值得一提,因為它經常被忽略作為一種壓力管理技術。 聽媽媽的話,兩端都唔好燒蠟燭!…

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Unveiling Reality

By Deepak Chopra, MD

I’d like to explain one of the great mysteries faced by spiritual seekers. On the surface this mystery sounds simple. The most basic statement of it is this: You don’t have to go anywhere to reach higher consciousness. At some level you are already enlightened. All you have to do is to uncover this level within yourself.

There are countless versions of the same teaching. “Be still and know that I am God” is a religious version. So is “The kingdom of Heaven is within.” Outside religion a version from India is called “the pathless path.” However different, all these teachings imply the same thing: The seeker’s goal is here and now. There is nowhere to go, no journey to take, no distance between the beginning and the end of the seeker’s path.

The reason for the mystery is that this teaching hasn’t worked for thousands of people who genuinely want the experience of higher consciousness. Inevitably, they wind up struggling inside themselves trying to locate this mysterious place where enlightenment—you can also call it God, Nirvana, liberation, or self-realization—supposedly lies. Instead of being here and now, the goal remains elusive, far away, and invisible, even after years of meditation, prayer, reflection, contemplation, and other spiritual practices. It’s all very frustrating.

We can unravel the mystery, however, with a simple fact. There is only one reality. There is no division between reality “in here” (subjective) and reality “out there.” The beauty of this simple fact is that you no longer have to struggle within yourself. You only have to unveil reality. So how has reality been disguised from us all these years?

Whatever feels real to you is always filtered through your personal experience. The filter can have any source, usually a worldview you believe in: religion, myth, science, your own personal story. In every case the mind has created a viewpoint that gives you an interpretation of reality, making everything personal. As we each become accustomed to our personal filters, we buy into personal reality totally. If there is a reality independent of the mind, we cannot know it.

Every experience is mind-made, whether the experience happens “in here’ or “out there.” What we call a person is a conditioned identity. What we call the outside world is a conditioned projection. We participate every day in a process that took centuries to develop as human awareness fashioned reality to suit human needs.

Conditioning serves a purpose: to make experience seem continuous. Objects look stable; the mind is constantly active; time flows along. In reality, however, experiences are fleeting and evanescent. They rise and fall instantaneously and cannot be grasped or held on to. Holding on to your last thought is as impossible as holding on to a dream. Stitching reality together through a series of perceptual snapshots, which is what we all do, is very useful, but reality frozen into a series of snapshots isn’t truly real.

If you look at it directly, every experience happens here and now. Now is immediate and present. Once you notice the present moment, another now has taken its place. So now has no duration on its own. It cannot be measured on the clock. In reality, now is outside clock time; therefore it is timeless: the so-called eternal now. We experience anything outside the here and now as a mental projection. The past is a mental construct, including the history of the universe. Mental models created the Big Bang, giving time a beginning when in reality time has no beginning or end.

Only one thing is continuous, staying with us no matter what is happening: Consciousness. By its very nature consciousness is here and now. Consciousness has no divisions, units, or dimensions. We mentally create the dimensions of time and space. Into this matrix we mentally insert matter and energy. Once any of these things is reduced to the here and now, it reveals itself as consciousness. By analogy, physics reduces all of time, space, matter, and energy to ripples in the quantum field. When the ripples subside, the field is unveiled as timeless, without beginning or end, where infinite possibilities emerge.

Since this is the true continuity of life and the true source of everything in existence, it is your true self. By finding a common source in consciousness, we arrive at the one reality. No other experience is necessary.

What keeps this experience far away is that we go around with models of reality in our heads, the current model being materialist and scientific. Models are useful maps and convenient fictions. But reality, being a field of infinite possibilities, cannot be modeled. These infinite possibilities are available here and now. Otherwise, the only possibilities are the ones your mental model accepts. The most damaging flaw in any model is to exclude the infinite, timeless, dimensionless state that is reality–consciousness.

When mind-made veils are removed, reality transcends anything the mind experiences, anything bound by space, time, birth and death, concepts, and models. The eternal now, when we connect with it, is our access to reality. Reality is infinite potential entering creation as endless manifestation.

The unveiling process eliminates everything that is conditioned, illusory, mind-made, the product of the ego, etc. Once these veils no longer color your experience, the mind gets a fresh start. We know ourselves in a new way. We are consciousness. We live with a foot in two camps; one foot in the everyday world, the other foot in pure, undisturbed awareness.

Yet both feet rest on the same ground: consciousness. In one mode consciousness is pure, unmoving, and silent. In another mode consciousness is endlessly creative. On the active side, the play of consciousness is our purpose and our joy. On the side of pure awareness, our purpose is to be, which is absolute freedom.

The only teaching anyone needs is this: Once you remove everything that is unreal, what remains must be reality itself. In the next post we’ll discuss the practicality of removing the veils that block us from living in the reality of here and now.

(To be continued.)

Deepak Chopra MD, FACP, founder of The Chopra Foundation and co-founder of The Chopra Center for Wellbeing, is a world-renowned pioneer in integrative medicine and personal transformation, and is Board Certified in Internal Medicine, Endocrinology and Metabolism.  He is a Fellow of the American College of Physicians and a member of the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologists. Chopra is the author of more than 85 books translated into over 43 languages, including numerous New York Times bestsellers. His latest books are The Healing Self co-authored with Rudy Tanzi, Ph.D. and Quantum Healing (Revised and Updated): Exploring the Frontiers of Mind/Body Medicine.  www.deepakchopra.com

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Despite the diagnosis of over 1.8 million new cases a year in the United States, Type 2 diabetes is not feared as it should be. A survey taken by the ADA and the CDC showed many people were more afraid of snake bites, plane crashes, or cancer. Someone who is not in good health is…

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